RYMA - Its the beginning of life : May 2012

Thursday, 17 May 2012

Monster

Salam,

Today my post is on monster....its not on what is monster, what they do etc. but on how i turn into monster yesterday.

It all because of my dearie Hana Marisa. we were having good time yesterday, as i was on leave to take care of her as my mum is away. we were doing her favourite, PAINTING!!!.i had finished all the house work. I was so so happy coz finally its the a day for me n hana to spend some quality time. we were painting a boat n suddenly i remembered about my curry suppose to boil like 1n hour ago...but i did not smell anything....so i went to check my fish curry....it was less than 5 mins...when i return, i saw the living hall floor was full of hana's 10 finger print...till the kitchen..further more she was happily counting 1-10 n smiling and telling me...she had so much funnnnnnnnnnnn...OMG....i saw the floor was chop with her finger....including the TV and her lips and face as well...when i asked...she said..its make up!!!! OMG, i felt so so angry...n started to scold her...n she was like "ma..i was just painting" ...lagilah mak marah!!!!adoiiiiiii....i started to pukul her and she cried a lot.....

Later, when she was asleep, ...OMG...what have i done....she is just a baby....baru 3 tahun....rasa bersalah sangat....i felt so so horrible....that was the only time me n her alone after such a long time.....yet i had ruined it.....Hana just love painting...everyday she will ask ..ma can i paint...such alovely girl...but horrible mum!

I saw her confuse eye. How come she is alllowed at school to do that. I guess i failed to tell her that what can and what cant be done...i'm sorry dear!

She was so sad...and later at night i told her why i pukul her..n she said sorry coz being naughty....OMG...i felt worst at that moment.

Friday, 11 May 2012

Mothers Day!

Salam,

Happy Mothers day! It is just around the corner. I'm not sure whether we as muslim can celebrate it but for me is like a day we officially we dedicate a day for our mom!

This week i felt so much when my mum is away. I need her the most at this moment. When she is away, i know how much i need her, how much i depend on her, how much i had take her for granted. Sorry ma.

The house felt so empty when she is not around. So so empty, feel so so empty. When she is not around, i will make my self busy, tired and occupied.

But when she is around, we cant along much. Often a discussion ended up with tears. Either mine or hers. Phewww.

This is pic of my mum with Hana.

Sorry ma. Please come back fast.

I miss you so much! Hana miss you too.

Yasmeen

Blogs...Sites i read and i love!

Salam,

As per my previous post. I love to read, to cook and others. And alhamdulillah with wide usage of Internet, i can get this things for free from net.

This sites all are free and we get get their updates via subscription. Listed are the sites i love to read everyday :

1. http://happiness-project.com/
2.   http://periuktanah.blogspot.com/
3. http://ummiscircle.blogspot.com/
4.   http://simplecraftsforpreschool.blogspot.com/search/label/Tips
5.   http://sarahtay.my/five-years-and-counting/
6.   http://www.bestspaghettisauce.com/
7. http://juliacameronlive.com/
8.   http://www.marthastewart.com/show/the-martha-stewart-show/kitchen-organizing
9.   http://darwishndarwisya.blogspot.com/
10. http://homedesign.marthastewart.com/2012/03/my-new-favorite-blogs.html
11. http://drjacobgeorge.com/myweblog/?page_id=20
12. http://www.houzz.com/photos/kitchen/p/24
13. http://www.lauracaseyinteriors.com/blog/2012/03/20/kitchen-technology/

Hope the above URLs will benefit you as well. Of course, the links are related to life, how to be happy, how to manage our life and other.

Iam in opine that, why should i buy it whereby i can get it free. Unless it is something that i love so much.

Recently, i bought The Secret book by Rhonda Byrne. It is really good book. Everyone should have it. Go n google about The Secret. I will tell you on next post ;)

See ya

IPAD..IPAD....IPAD

Salam.

Its about the new Ipad. Its the third generation or called The New Ipad or Ipad 3. Its been waited since the Ipad 2 launched! Off course , people are hunger for Apple's new product.

My husband bought it as my Hana Marisa's 3rd birthday present!!!! I totally againts it. However, i only knew it after it been bought.

My Hana Marisa was so happy. All her cousin have one. So, she wont be "jakun" when she is with them. Mode: Sedapkan hati ;).

On the other, to utilize or maximize Ipad usage by my dearie, i googled and googled and finally found this information on Islamic Parenting and i suscribe to their new updates. Alhamdulillah, on 4th May 2012 i receive an email from them informing how to screen our kids from various sites in net. And the good things is they shared few URLs which is good. The list is as follows:

1- Al-quran utk kanak2

Alhamdulillah, i had tested few with Hana. And she like it. However, as usual the animated games attract her more than the above link. Watch this video of Hana playing with her IPAD.

Trust me those above links are good and its good to expose our kids to them. We as parents have all the right to educate them, choose what they should watch and guide them. Some of the parents, let the kids play and get access to internet freely. The kids are exposed to so much of bad things. Please guide them. The kids need the parents. Who else will guide them if not us the parents.

Suddently become so emotional about our kids nowadaya. Some of the kids nowadays, their day is filled with Ipad. You can see it at family gathering, dinners etc. The kids in their own world. Nothing else matters.

They dont know how to social with others, especially with elder people. They are not running around, they are not playing hide n seek (i enjoy it so much when i was kid), they are just sitting on chair and moving their tiny fingers! They are not sweating! They are not healthy.

One of the way to make sure Hana is not obsessed with IPAd is hide it. Then tell her IPAD need to sleep. Or else she wont stop playing with IPAd. And i need so much of patient to explain to her. As usual why...why...why....

Thursday, 10 May 2012

How IT changed my life!!

Salam...hope everyone is in best of health.

Todays post is about how IT had changed my life!!

Honestly i started to depend on IT (PC, emails, chats) because of my love life! Yes, you are correct. I have to be connected to be with my boyfriend (now husband) hehehhehe.

I mean, we had long distance relationship. He studied at States while i was here in Malaysia. Obviously, those days i can't use phone as the cost is so so expensive.

We have been communicationg through Yahoo Messenger for almost 10 years! Wow! Time really flies!
Some of the communication that i had save...hehhehehe.Sorry, its blurry but hope you can see the dates. Some were from 2003 ;)

As you see...it was those years emails.....e-greeting cards......my precious moments....its my LIFE!

Above is proof of life....how IT had contributed to my life.

Now, i'm married with him. Almost 4th year n blessed with our little pricess Hana Marisa.

On our wedding day with my friend's who contributed a lot during my hard days ( u know its hard to maintain long distance relationship). Thank you Syeda, Iza, Ibu ( Syeda's mother) and Ila (Syeda's sister)

Alhamdulillah....from two...we become three.....Hana Marisa, Ma love you so so much sayang....

Us on Hana Marisa's 3rd Birthday!

With lots of love!

Inspired!

Salam!

Am inspired! By my lecturer PM Dr Norzaidi. I am taking MIS subject this semester...n i'm proud to know him n learn so much from him...the class was not just about IT..but its about our life....what r the things happening around us n many more...Thanks Dr ...

How he had inspired me??? well ...it was just so simple...about his life...the adventure of his life....

What puzzled me more is how certain people able to motivate other people...how they show us light behind the tunnel.....how the make other people's day....this kind of people willing to give endlessly...they share whatever knowledge they have, they know....just by talking....

I know lots of people out there who need this kind of "light"....sometimes,they just dont know where to go...how to go..etc....Example...i'm in HR field...thus..i know in an out of HR practices....(if i dont know ..i will google) ..some people...are so desperate looking for job....sending 101 resumes to companies....but if your resume is not right...will recruiters select you?? the answer is NOPE!...so the first thing is correct your resume. How to correct your resume? Well....google first....i will let you know on the next post....hahhahaha..just keep you all reading...sorry...:) peace!!

On the other side....there is another type of person who keep things to themselve...takut orang lain lebih berjaya....this kind of people....demotivates other people....nothing is right...negative....and if other are to get something from them....it will be so hard....( No point talking about this kind of people....hehehheh ;) ).

Ok till then...see ya one next post!